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Published on November 12, 2004 By Matchbook In WinCustomize Talk
This is just a stab in the dark, but maybe a light-hearted guide to..

You might be off to a bad start here if:

- You come in with more attitude than a grizzly out of hibernation and a bigger chip on your shoulder than Edmonton has shopping.

- ..if your queries or questions are all asked in a way too demanding nature. I bet if you ask nicely, you'll be answered not only more quickly, but more accurately as well. You do, afterall, get what you give.

- ..if you're not clear in your thread. Starting a new thread saying, I've installed this program, where do I put the files? isn't helping anyone. How clear is that? If you're needing installation help for any program, any and all Stardock applications come bundled with handy little readme's and such to help you along your way. Should you require further assistance, PLEASE be so kind as to give some details.
State what you downloaded, if it's the shareware/freeware version, what version number [sometimes helps] and so on. Ending a thread of this nature with a pleasantry like "..many thanks in advance!" or "thanks everyone!" does wonders.

- ..if you post twice.. Why even bother? Do you really think on a site that sees millions of unique visitors each month that your thread was overlooked by everyone? When you make your post, why not just wait a while for a response? Surely if you were polite in asking and waited long enough someone would respond, no?
Threads with titles like HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLP PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ won't necessarily get you a faster or quicker response either, so, if it's not much bother, try to keep those CAPS to a minimum, eh?

- .. if you don't think before post. I bet many internet misinterpretations could be avoided if those who are frustrated or angry took that extra 15 seconds out of their life to more accurately convey themselves, no?

- ..if you're openly hostile to anyone right off the bat. If a given program isn't working, and a bug is ruled out, it's probably the user, not the program. Saying stardock suckz!!! because you didn't install WindowBlinds before downloading a WindowBlind is not Stardock's issue, try not to make it theirs. A fault in the software is. See the difference?

- ..if you start a thread to openly and with much hostility whine and complain about why you had something rejected. Be real, here. All almost two million [+] users here have had things rejected. I've personally had multiple rejections in a row!. Now, was that an indication that WinCustomize sucks or that perhaps my work needed to be of a higher quality [etc] first? My bet's on the latter. Just e-mail an admin.. There's dozens here. Pick and e-mail and keep it off the boards, eh?

- ..if you freely state that your work is better than almost everyones when you've had a rejection. This is not only rude and ignorant but you only come off as an arrogant, disgruntled user - someome I'm, personally, disinclined to show any empathy for.

- ..if you chastise anyone who is trying to help you. It's just bad manners.

I'm sure there's loads more those are just a few I conjured up whilst keeping up on these boards. I'm by no means an angel, but I have learned lots, since becoming a member/subscriber. Anyone else have something to add? ..
Comments
on Nov 12, 2004
Well said SBGFX
on Nov 12, 2004
Your my hero Dan.
on Nov 12, 2004
Of course you do realize that you're preaching to the choir? That is, those who will read this are likely those who don't need to and those who need to won't.

Chef Garry hurt himself with that last sentence.



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on Nov 12, 2004
Sad to say, I agree with Chef Garry. Lets hope we are wrong.



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on Nov 12, 2004
I've personally had multiple rejections in a row!

Me too!
And not just from Wincusto!!



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on Nov 13, 2004
Subtle dig...but the author could do worse than to read/heed his own thread....
on Nov 13, 2004
I do hope you are feeling better Chef Garry, brain sprains can be difficult to heal quickly..



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on Nov 13, 2004
if you don't think before post. I bet many internet misinterpretations could be avoided if those who are frustrated or angry took that extra 15 seconds out of their life to more accurately convey themselves, no?
I find that is the best advice right there, walk away from that puter fo a little while . It really helps to clear your head for 5 or 10 minutes .

good thead SBGFX



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on Nov 13, 2004
brain sprains can be difficult to heal quickly


no problem White Moth. If I need an opinion, my wife will let me know what it is.


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on Nov 13, 2004
Great post. However, some of the people that should read and take this to heart, somehow always believe that they are in the right and the rest of the world is wrong.



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